You are madly in love. Your partner also claims to love you too.
But wait a minute? Is it really true? Does your partner really love you?
Your mind tells you one thing; your heart tells you another. But you
prefer to believe your heart, because you don't want to face the
reality. You are afraid of the consequences of accepting the truth.
But you can see some clear signs that show you are labouring to keep a
one-sided relationship going. You are hoping against hope to make this
work.
If you don't call, you don't get called. If you don't visit your
partner, you don't get visited all because she is busy. If you offend
your partner, you apologise; and if your partner offends you, you
still apologise. Why? Because if you don't apologise, the cold war
will continue forever.
Sorry, you are on a long thing!
Love is extremely painful and frustrating if it is unrequited. Our
people say that the he-goat placed on a she-goat does not mate.
Most times, ladies find it more difficult to get the message. Why?
First, we live in a masculine society where it is still seen as a
taboo for a woman to approach a man for a relationship. Secondly, and
most importantly, a man can marry at 50 years or above and still
father children, but not so for women. So, some women get desperate
once they hit 30 years and close their eyes to all the warning
signals, all in a bid to get married.
But can a one-sided relationship lead to marriage let alone a happy
marriage? Most unlikely. When you are not loved, you are not loved.
Forget the pretences.
Love is like pregnancy: it cannot be hidden. If someone loves you, you
will know. Forget words. Kwukason is not mekason! Love is best
displayed in action. Gbam!
When someone loves you, there are certain traits the person must
display. Here they are:
1. Lovers cherish each other's company.
Those who are in love are eager to be in each other's company. They
never seem to have enough of each other. Whenever the time to part
comes, they feel sad. And we are not talking about sex here.
Let's draw a line between a true lover who wants companionship and a
sex seeker who wants sex. A lover wants to share hours unend, while
the sex seeker wants to attend to some other things once sex is served
and done with.
Lovebirds are usually unproductive when together, because they savour
each other's company. They watch hours fly past like seconds. When
they are apart, the distance is bridged with long phone calls, online
chatting, and daydreaming. They don't want to attend to assignments
until they become late.
When your so-called Honey feels bored with you or is eager to dismiss
you, then wahala dey! When your darling always finds excuses not to be
with you, then all is not well. Let your alarm start ringing.
2. Love loosens the tongue
The most taciturn person on earth wants to chat with his or her
sweetheart. The topic of discussion does not matter. It may even be on
a topic like the sounds, styles and stench of fart! Haba Mai gida!
What matters is that true lovers love to talk with each other as long
as time permits: face-to-face, on phone, on the Internet, via whtsapp,
through letters, anyhow, anyway, anywhere, any time! Time never seems
to be enough.
When you find it hard to chat with the person you love, that should
warn you that your future happiness is jeopardised.
What do lovers really discuss? Nothing. Isn't that why it is called
"sweet nothings"?
When you easily run out of what to say to each other, then know that
all is not well with your relationship.
If your partner is too busy to call, to visit you, to send or reply an
sms, to chat online, all is not well.
Please, don't even accept the I-am-busy line. Even an unmarried
president of a country or the CEO of a multinational will never be too
busy to talk with their lover.
If your partner does not call you – or only calls once in a blue moon
– and you are the one always calling, please, wake up. Or, are you a
learner?
3. Love can't exist without laughter and jokes
A love relationship should be filled with laughter and happiness. Even
if you never laugh with anyone, you should be able to laugh with your
loved one. If the sky is about to drop and you see your sweetheart,
some measure of joy and calm should come into your heart.
If your "sweetheart" laughs when in other people's company but does
not laugh or feel happy in your company, then you are simply being
tolerated.
Just move on. You are too precious to be someone's sidekick; too
priceless to be a standby generator. No, no, no! You are more precious
than rubies, and more valuable than gold. You are wonderfully and
feartfully made.
Someone who will love and cherish you will come.
Firstclassnewsline.net
But wait a minute? Is it really true? Does your partner really love you?
Your mind tells you one thing; your heart tells you another. But you
prefer to believe your heart, because you don't want to face the
reality. You are afraid of the consequences of accepting the truth.
But you can see some clear signs that show you are labouring to keep a
one-sided relationship going. You are hoping against hope to make this
work.
If you don't call, you don't get called. If you don't visit your
partner, you don't get visited all because she is busy. If you offend
your partner, you apologise; and if your partner offends you, you
still apologise. Why? Because if you don't apologise, the cold war
will continue forever.
Sorry, you are on a long thing!
Love is extremely painful and frustrating if it is unrequited. Our
people say that the he-goat placed on a she-goat does not mate.
Most times, ladies find it more difficult to get the message. Why?
First, we live in a masculine society where it is still seen as a
taboo for a woman to approach a man for a relationship. Secondly, and
most importantly, a man can marry at 50 years or above and still
father children, but not so for women. So, some women get desperate
once they hit 30 years and close their eyes to all the warning
signals, all in a bid to get married.
But can a one-sided relationship lead to marriage let alone a happy
marriage? Most unlikely. When you are not loved, you are not loved.
Forget the pretences.
Love is like pregnancy: it cannot be hidden. If someone loves you, you
will know. Forget words. Kwukason is not mekason! Love is best
displayed in action. Gbam!
When someone loves you, there are certain traits the person must
display. Here they are:
1. Lovers cherish each other's company.
Those who are in love are eager to be in each other's company. They
never seem to have enough of each other. Whenever the time to part
comes, they feel sad. And we are not talking about sex here.
Let's draw a line between a true lover who wants companionship and a
sex seeker who wants sex. A lover wants to share hours unend, while
the sex seeker wants to attend to some other things once sex is served
and done with.
Lovebirds are usually unproductive when together, because they savour
each other's company. They watch hours fly past like seconds. When
they are apart, the distance is bridged with long phone calls, online
chatting, and daydreaming. They don't want to attend to assignments
until they become late.
When your so-called Honey feels bored with you or is eager to dismiss
you, then wahala dey! When your darling always finds excuses not to be
with you, then all is not well. Let your alarm start ringing.
2. Love loosens the tongue
The most taciturn person on earth wants to chat with his or her
sweetheart. The topic of discussion does not matter. It may even be on
a topic like the sounds, styles and stench of fart! Haba Mai gida!
What matters is that true lovers love to talk with each other as long
as time permits: face-to-face, on phone, on the Internet, via whtsapp,
through letters, anyhow, anyway, anywhere, any time! Time never seems
to be enough.
When you find it hard to chat with the person you love, that should
warn you that your future happiness is jeopardised.
What do lovers really discuss? Nothing. Isn't that why it is called
"sweet nothings"?
When you easily run out of what to say to each other, then know that
all is not well with your relationship.
If your partner is too busy to call, to visit you, to send or reply an
sms, to chat online, all is not well.
Please, don't even accept the I-am-busy line. Even an unmarried
president of a country or the CEO of a multinational will never be too
busy to talk with their lover.
If your partner does not call you – or only calls once in a blue moon
– and you are the one always calling, please, wake up. Or, are you a
learner?
3. Love can't exist without laughter and jokes
A love relationship should be filled with laughter and happiness. Even
if you never laugh with anyone, you should be able to laugh with your
loved one. If the sky is about to drop and you see your sweetheart,
some measure of joy and calm should come into your heart.
If your "sweetheart" laughs when in other people's company but does
not laugh or feel happy in your company, then you are simply being
tolerated.
Just move on. You are too precious to be someone's sidekick; too
priceless to be a standby generator. No, no, no! You are more precious
than rubies, and more valuable than gold. You are wonderfully and
feartfully made.
Someone who will love and cherish you will come.
Firstclassnewsline.net
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