Firstclass newsline special:12 dangerous people to marry

Firstclass newsline Special«There are traits that some people cannot
drop. It is like hoping that a right-handed spouse will one day become
left-handed: a classical case of waiting for Godot!
If you are looking for a wife or a husband, please be wary of these 12
groups of people.
Those who can never apologise
They would hurt you, annoy you, disappoint you, but would never
apologise, because they believe that it would belittle and demean
them. When you are wrong, you apologise to them, and when you are
right, you still apologise to them, hoping that that they would
change. But they never do. Soon you start to feel irritated and
agitated. The love and respect you felt for them start to wear out.
Those who can never say thank you
Whatever you do for them, they are never grateful. They make
statements like: "Why should I say thank you when you are just doing
your duty?" Some would say that their gratitude is in their heart. So,
do I have to open your heart to see the gratitude inside and get it?
Ingratitude is an attitude that causes irritation, frustration and
unhappiness.
Such people also believe the world owes them a lot. They go around
their activities with an entitlement mentality. They are difficult to
please.
Those who have excessive libido or inadequate libido
Sexual intercourse is a very important factor in marriage, but when
you have a spouse that needs it for breakfast, lunch and supper, it
becomes difficult to have any peace in the family. Infidelity also
knocks on the door. On the other hand, when you have a spouse that
hates sex or thinks that sex should be an annual event undertaken
during the wedding anniversary or birthday celebration, then you know
that you have some real trouble in the house. Infidelity is also
usually a challenge. Sexual problem is worsened by the fact that it is
one topic that couples find difficult to discuss with even those who
genuinely want to help resolve the marital rift.
Men who think women are to be seen but not heard
Some men still live in the 18th century, in spite of the depth of
education they profess. It is true that marriage is not a zone for
feminist crusade, but if a man has archaic views about women, then
please avoid him like an Ebola patient. Watch out for statements like:
"How can an ordinary woman want to be the CEO?" "How can a woman
debate with men?"
Women who believe they don't need a man in their life
Such women believe that they are self-sufficient in all things. They
have the I-don't-give-a-damn attitude. Men feel ill at ease when they
are with women who don't allow a room in their lives for a man to
fill. Such women find it difficult to express love. They always
believe a man wants to dominate them. They are usually too defensive,
too competitive, and too contentious. Men who relate with them usually
feel frustrated. Such men always choose their words and actions
carefully to avoid quarrels. That smothers affection and joy.
Men who are looking for housemaids, not wives
These are men who still live in the 15th century in this modern age.
They have an archaic idea of what the role of wives is. They believe
that women are only meant to cook, clean the house, bear children, and
serve the men.
They believe that when men talk, women just have to obey; when men
talk, women must keep quiet. The man can keep mistresses, but the
woman should keep quiet and not even be seen greeting a man. A woman
should not work, should not step out of the house, and should not
complain, whatever the man doles out to her.
Those who can never trust anybody
These are those who believe that everybody is an enemy. Everybody is
filled with evil designs against them. They have an obsession with
fear of people, including their spouse, that it is irritating. Once a
spouse cannot be trusted, there can never be joy in the family. They
see through every action. They believe that everybody has evil
intentions.
Those who have no respect for others
People can mouth love, but without respect, a marriage can never be
happy. Women who love to prove a point by insulting their husbands, or
men who believe in treating their wives without dignity in the name of
cutting their wives to size: such people make terrible marriage
partners. Nothing kills marriages like disrespect.
Women who see all men as competition that must not be given an inch
Marriage is not a place for activism. A woman who sees a man as a
competitor rather than a complement is a dangerous person to marry.
When a man has to contend with a woman every minute, when a man is
always too conscious of what to say or do to his wife, then there is a
problem at home.
Those who can't control their temper
Hot-tempered people are dangerous. They can utter anything in anger.
They can do things that they will regret for life. They can be
violent. Their words can be venomous. They can put you in trouble.
They are unpredictable.
Those who cannot forgive
Forgiveness makes us look superhuman. But there are those who cannot
forgive, no matter the circumstances. Not only can they not forgive,
they can also not forget. Because they can't forgive, they usually
think of how to get revenge.
Those who have not been weaned by their parents
Age has little to do with maturity in marriage. Those who have not
been "weaned" by their parents make poor marriage partners. They are
full of "Mummy said", "Daddy said". They take every family discussion
to their parents. They cannot do anything unless their parents
approve. They allow their parents to run their homes in the name of
showing respect.
Those who are tied to the apron strings of their parents make marriage
tasteless. Such spouses are a constant source of frustration and
sadness. You will always be wrong in their sight. You will always be
vilified.
In summary, marriage is not a bed of roses. There is nobody without
some faults or idiosyncrasies. But it is foolhardy to walk into a
landmine with one's eyes open, praying and hoping that the explosive
would not go off.
To avoid heartaches, neither blind love nor desperation to get married
should push a bachelor or spinster to jump into a marriage with
someone who will cause nothing but pain, sadness, and sorrow. Marriage
should not be treated as a game of Russian roulette.
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